For me personally this is the beginning of mid month. Which means I'm working harder and harder. Yes I am in love with a human who loves me in return, I just don't demand the over the top Valentine's day expectations. Honestly, he works until 10pm and I will have an 8am success seminar. So pretty much it will be a kiss and maybe my favorite candy (giant size) with a message written on it. I once told him, we don't need to celebrate Valentines. He asked, why? Well sir, you will adore me everyday of the year, so instead of the flowers cards and dinners I asked for a day of appreciation.
Do you ever feel like the expectation for this holiday makes people crazy, I think more fights happen over gifts or plans more than than anything else. Do not be that person, remember why you're with the person next you. If you're alone then remember why, you raised your standards and not just anyone will do. Speaking the singles, really appreciate yourself. Give yourself a gift and cater to your needs.